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  1. colonelhathi:

    • japan ≠ korea ≠ china
    • pakistan is not in the middle east
    • most muslims aren’t arabs
    • geishas are not prostitutes
    • mexico is a very small part of latin america
    • there are 54 countries in africa
    • china has 56 different ethnic groups and none of them eat chop suey
     
     
  2. catandkitty:

durnesque-esque:

thehippiejew:

extrafeisty:

jaycubs:


A Glasgow nightclub has installed a two-way mirror which allows male revellers in private booths to spy on unsuspecting women as they visit the toilet! With no notification or signage anywhere in the venue many female club goers have been left feeling embarrassed and used. Although they do briefly show the mirrors in a promo video, the club has been quickly deleting comments and posts on their social media from club goers trying to alert others to the situation. This is pretty much illegal and hugley violates privacy. Thank you The Shimmy Club for giving us a shiny, new, creative and cool take on objectification. article here

i’m never leaving my house again, this world is just too fucked up.

WHAT!?

gross gross gross gross gross

Good morning disgusting. Remember ladies:
 “No space, leave the place” (fingernail test)
A two way mirror must be set INTO the wall, not placed on top of it.
If you rap/knock against the mirror, one installed onto a wall (a normal mirror) will make a dull sound, because there’s something behind it. A two-way will have more reverberation.
Use the flashlight on your phone to shine on the mirror, if it’s a two-way, you’ll be able to see into the other room.
You can also shield your eyes and see in if you lean up against the glass.
The room being viewed will have to be brightly lit (10x brighter than the room looking in), so if you’re in a typical dimly lit club bathroom, you’re ok.

Remember ladies, don’t expect to leave your house an be treated like an autonomous person who doesn’t have to search every bathroom, powder room, and elevator like you’re in a fucking neo noir spy film! So pass on these safety tips that reaffirm that deep knot of dread in your stomach telling you your humanity is up for debate!

    catandkitty:

    durnesque-esque:

    thehippiejew:

    extrafeisty:

    jaycubs:

    A Glasgow nightclub has installed a two-way mirror which allows male revellers in private booths to spy on unsuspecting women as they visit the toilet! With no notification or signage anywhere in the venue many female club goers have been left feeling embarrassed and used. Although they do briefly show the mirrors in a promo video, the club has been quickly deleting comments and posts on their social media from club goers trying to alert others to the situation. This is pretty much illegal and hugley violates privacy. Thank you The Shimmy Club for giving us a shiny, new, creative and cool take on objectification.
    article here

    i’m never leaving my house again, this world is just too fucked up.

    WHAT!?

    gross gross gross gross gross

    Good morning disgusting.

    Remember ladies:

    • “No space, leave the place” (fingernail test)
    • A two way mirror must be set INTO the wall, not placed on top of it.
    • If you rap/knock against the mirror, one installed onto a wall (a normal mirror) will make a dull sound, because there’s something behind it. A two-way will have more reverberation.
    • Use the flashlight on your phone to shine on the mirror, if it’s a two-way, you’ll be able to see into the other room.
    • You can also shield your eyes and see in if you lean up against the glass.
    • The room being viewed will have to be brightly lit (10x brighter than the room looking in), so if you’re in a typical dimly lit club bathroom, you’re ok.

    Remember ladies, don’t expect to leave your house an be treated like an autonomous person who doesn’t have to search every bathroom, powder room, and elevator like you’re in a fucking neo noir spy film! So pass on these safety tips that reaffirm that deep knot of dread in your stomach telling you your humanity is up for debate!

     
     
  3. iinventedeverything:

i mean—look at this shit. LOOK at this shit.
look at the ingredients. know that i just learned how to make homemade ranch dressing, and the top ingredient is buttermilk, with the next being mayo (which you can make from scratch), but you can very easily shift the mayo (if you don’t have time or ingredients to make homemade mayo) to sour cream. there’s also garlic, dill, parsley, and salt and pepper. 
NO oil. NO corn syrup. NO food starch. NO sugar. 
this “ranch” dressing is LITERALLY NOT RANCH. it is a mix of oils and sugars and preservatives. 
but i don’t see anybody (i.e. the OMG CHINA!!! pearl clutchers) demanding we all write our congress person about the heinous kraft corporation that is destroying our precious food system. 

    iinventedeverything:

    i mean—look at this shit. LOOK at this shit.

    look at the ingredients. know that i just learned how to make homemade ranch dressing, and the top ingredient is buttermilk, with the next being mayo (which you can make from scratch), but you can very easily shift the mayo (if you don’t have time or ingredients to make homemade mayo) to sour cream. there’s also garlic, dill, parsley, and salt and pepper. 

    NO oil. NO corn syrup. NO food starch. NO sugar. 

    this “ranch” dressing is LITERALLY NOT RANCH. it is a mix of oils and sugars and preservatives. 

    but i don’t see anybody (i.e. the OMG CHINA!!! pearl clutchers) demanding we all write our congress person about the heinous kraft corporation that is destroying our precious food system. 

     
     
  4. our-lady-of-misandry:

Misandry in the early 20th century.
Yes good

    our-lady-of-misandry:

    Misandry in the early 20th century.

    Yes good

     
     
  5. "You may not agree with a woman, but to criticize her appearance — as opposed to her ideas or actions — isn’t doing anyone any favors, least of all you. Insulting a woman’s looks when they have nothing to do with the issue at hand implies a lack of comprehension on your part, an inability to engage in high-level thinking. You may think she’s ugly, but everyone else thinks you’re an idiot."
    — Hillary Clinton  (via yadonegoofed)

    (Source: ceedling)

     
     
  6. President Obama responds to rape statement (below) from Senate candidate Richard Mourdock:

    “I struggled with it myself for a long time but I came to realize, life is a gift from god and even if life begins in the horrible situation of rape it is something god intended to happen.”

    (Source: michaeldelzotto)

     
     
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  8. "That’s what you do with Depression, you mask the symptoms. The symptoms of Depression IS depression, it’s not a symptom of something else. It’s not like you go “oooh, I feel really sad” and then your arse falls off. The symptoms of Depression is depression. You take away the symptoms of Depression HALLOOOOO! you’re cured! But Tom [Cruise] was like “no, no, no Matt. Matt, these drugs Matt, these drugs they’re just a crutch, these drugs are just a crutch!” and I’m thinking “yes?”. THEY’RE A CRUTCH! You don’t walk up to a guy with one leg and say “hey pal, that crutch is just a crutch, THROW IT AWAY! Hop ya bastard! That crutch is masking the symptoms of your one leggedness”."
    — 

    Craig Ferguson on Tom Cruise attacking Brooke Shields for using anti-depressants to fight Post-Partum Depression. (via themarriageofadeadblogsing)

    I have always thought Craig Ferguson was a very smart man. It appears I was right.

    (via deliciouskaek)

    “It’s not like you go “oooh, I feel really sad” and then your arse falls off.”

    (via cephalopuddle)

     
     
  9. (Source: johnjlm)

     
     
  10. amaditalks:

thatlupa:

aliceinnappyland:

silentlydrawn:


I was going to tell you about the huge turnout today at the US Senate, the most powerful legislative body in the world ! About the overflow crowd at the hearing on hate crimes and the threat of domestic extremism held in the wake of the massacre at the Sikh Gurudwara in Wisconsin on a day, August 5, 2012, that will never be forgotten. Instead, here are excerpts from the testimony of an 18-year-old Sikh boy, Harpreet Singh Saini, who lost his mother, Paramjit Kaur Saini, in that terrible tragedy. Hardly able to hold back his tears, Harpreet told the Senate Judiciary Subcommittee on the Constitution, Civil Rights and Human Rights….
“A little over a month ago, I never imagined I’d be here. I never imagined that anyone outside of Oak Creek would know my name. Or my mother’s name, Paramjit Kaur Saini. Or my brother’s name, Kamaljit Singh Saini. Kamal, my brother and best friend, is here with me today.As we all know, on Sunday, August 5, 2012, a white supremist fueled by hatred walked into our local Gurudwara with a loaded gun. He killed my mother, Paramjit Kaur, while she was sitting for morning prayers. He shot and killed five more men - all of them were fathers, all had turbans like me.And now people know all our names: Sita Singh, Ranjit Singh, Prakash Singh, Suvegh Singh, Satwant Singh Kaleka.This was not supposed to be our American story. This was not my mother’s dream….It was a Tuesday, two days after our mother was killed, that my brother Kamal and I ate the leftovers of the last meal she had made for us. We ate her last rotis - which are a type of South Asian flatbread. She had made the rotis from scratch the night before she died. Along with the last bite of our food that Tuesday came the realization that this was the last meal made by the hands of our mother that we will ever eat in our lifetime…..Senators, my mother was our biggest fan, our biggest supporter. She was always there for us. She always had a smile on her face.But, now she’s gone. Because of a man who hated her because she wasn’t his color? His religion?I just had my first day of college. And my mother wasn’t there to send me off. She won’t be there for my graduation. She won’t be there on my wedding day. She won’t be there to meet her grandchildren.I want to tell the gunman who took her from me: You may have been full of hate, but my mother was full of love.She was an American. And this was not our American dream….Senators, I came here today to ask the government to give my mother the dignity of being a statistic. The FBI does not track hate crimes against Sikhs. My mother and those shot that day will not even count on a federal form. We cannot solve a problem we refuse to recognize.Senators, I also ask that the government pursue domestic terrorism with the same vigor as attackers from abroad. The man who killed my mother was on the watch list of public interest groups. I believe the government could have tracked him long before he went on a shooting spree.Finally, Senators, I ask that you stand up for us. As lawmakers and leaders, you have the power to shape public opinion. Your words carry weight. When others scapegoat or demean people because of who they are, use your power to say that is wrong.So many have asked Sikhs to simply blame Muslims for attacks against our community or just say, “We are not Muslim”. But, we won’t blame anyone else. An attack on one of us is an attack on all of us.I also want to be a part of the solution. That’s why I want to be a law enforcement officer like Lieutenant Brian Murphy who saved so many lives on August 5, 2012. I want to protect other people from what happened to my mother. I want to combat hate - not just against Sikhs, but against all people. Senators, I know what happened at Oak Creek was not an isolated incident. I fear it may happen again if we don’t stand up and do something.I don’t want anyone to suffer what we have suffered. I want to build a world where all people can live, work and worship in America in peace.Because you see, despite everything, I still believe in the American dream. In my mother’s memory, I ask that you stand up for it with me, today, and in the days to come…”Hope it touches every heart !!Photo: Harpreet Singh Saini after testifying in a hearing on hate crimes and the threat of domestic extremism in the US Senate, earlier today. At left is Assistant Majority Leader Dick Durbin (Democrat-Illinois), Chairman of the Senate Judiciary Subcommittee on the Constitution, Civil Rights and Human Rights

Source

“give my mother the dignity of being a statistic.”
“give my mother the dignity of being a statistic.”
“give my mother the dignity of being a statistic.”
That hit me like a punch in the gut…

^^^^

[Image description: A young Sikh man, presumably Harpreet Singh Saini, is wearing a black turban, blue dress shirt and dark tie. He is surrounded by people in suits, possibly after the hearing mentioned in the post. The young man clutches a handkerchief or tissue to his face, he is clearly distraught.]

    amaditalks:

    thatlupa:

    aliceinnappyland:

    silentlydrawn:

    I was going to tell you about the huge turnout today at the US Senate, the most powerful legislative body in the world ! About the overflow crowd at the hearing on hate crimes and the threat of domestic extremism held in the wake of the massacre at the Sikh Gurudwara in Wisconsin on a day, August 5, 2012, that will never be forgotten. 

    Instead, here are excerpts from the testimony of an 18-year-old Sikh boy, Harpreet Singh Saini, who lost his mother, Paramjit Kaur Saini, in that terrible tragedy. Hardly able to hold back his tears, Harpreet told the Senate Judiciary Subcommittee on the Constitution, Civil Rights and Human Rights….


    “A little over a month ago, I never imagined I’d be here. I never imagined that anyone outside of Oak Creek would know my name. Or my mother’s name, Paramjit Kaur Saini. Or my brother’s name, Kamaljit Singh Saini. Kamal, my brother and best friend, is here with me today.

    As we all know, on Sunday, August 5, 2012, a white supremist fueled by hatred walked into our local Gurudwara with a loaded gun. He killed my mother, Paramjit Kaur, while she was sitting for morning prayers. He shot and killed five more men - all of them were fathers, all had turbans like me.

    And now people know all our names: Sita Singh, Ranjit Singh, Prakash Singh, Suvegh Singh, Satwant Singh Kaleka.

    This was not supposed to be our American story. This was not my mother’s dream….

    It was a Tuesday, two days after our mother was killed, that my brother Kamal and I ate the leftovers of the last meal she had made for us. We ate her last rotis - which are a type of South Asian flatbread. She had made the rotis from scratch the night before she died. Along with the last bite of our food that Tuesday came the realization that this was the last meal made by the hands of our mother that we will ever eat in our lifetime…..

    Senators, my mother was our biggest fan, our biggest supporter. She was always there for us. She always had a smile on her face.

    But, now she’s gone. Because of a man who hated her because she wasn’t his color? His religion?

    I just had my first day of college. And my mother wasn’t there to send me off. She won’t be there for my graduation. She won’t be there on my wedding day. She won’t be there to meet her grandchildren.

    I want to tell the gunman who took her from me: You may have been full of hate, but my mother was full of love.

    She was an American. And this was not our American dream….

    Senators, I came here today to ask the government to give my mother the dignity of being a statistic. The FBI does not track hate crimes against Sikhs. My mother and those shot that day will not even count on a federal form. We cannot solve a problem we refuse to recognize.

    Senators, I also ask that the government pursue domestic terrorism with the same vigor as attackers from abroad. The man who killed my mother was on the watch list of public interest groups. I believe the government could have tracked him long before he went on a shooting spree.

    Finally, Senators, I ask that you stand up for us. As lawmakers and leaders, you have the power to shape public opinion. Your words carry weight. When others scapegoat or demean people because of who they are, use your power to say that is wrong.

    So many have asked Sikhs to simply blame Muslims for attacks against our community or just say, “We are not Muslim”. But, we won’t blame anyone else. An attack on one of us is an attack on all of us.

    I also want to be a part of the solution. That’s why I want to be a law enforcement officer like Lieutenant Brian Murphy who saved so many lives on August 5, 2012. I want to protect other people from what happened to my mother. I want to combat hate - not just against Sikhs, but against all people. 

    Senators, I know what happened at Oak Creek was not an isolated incident. I fear it may happen again if we don’t stand up and do something.

    I don’t want anyone to suffer what we have suffered. I want to build a world where all people can live, work and worship in America in peace.

    Because you see, despite everything, I still believe in the American dream. In my mother’s memory, I ask that you stand up for it with me, today, and in the days to come…”

    Hope it touches every heart !!

    Photo: Harpreet Singh Saini after testifying in a hearing on hate crimes and the threat of domestic extremism in the US Senate, earlier today. At left is Assistant Majority Leader Dick Durbin (Democrat-Illinois), Chairman of the Senate Judiciary Subcommittee on the Constitution, Civil Rights and Human Rights

    “give my mother the dignity of being a statistic.”

    “give my mother the dignity of being a statistic.”

    “give my mother the dignity of being a statistic.

    That hit me like a punch in the gut…

    ^^^^

    [Image description: A young Sikh man, presumably Harpreet Singh Saini, is wearing a black turban, blue dress shirt and dark tie. He is surrounded by people in suits, possibly after the hearing mentioned in the post. The young man clutches a handkerchief or tissue to his face, he is clearly distraught.]

    (Source: honeymanifesto)